y'all. lets please stop using "poly" for "polyamorous" and get in the habit of using "polya" or "polyam". the reasoning behind this is a plea from Polynesian folk who have claimed the ID "Poly" for themselves, like, A WHILE ago.
A: Its fine if you didn't know, we're always learning.
A: Congrats if you already do this.
A: If you feel esp defensive about this, thats the racism trying to leave your body. Let it go.